Yasmin Heartsdale AKA Goddess.

Some call her Yasmin some call her Yas some call her Goddess some call her…. Well you get the point. Whatever you call her be honor to call her friend. I could go on and on in a dozen blogs and tell you how great she is. But it would never truly tell you. I contemplated awhile of how I was going to write this. I wrote this a few times but it never seem correct. I still don’t seem to express or tell you who she truly is. The only way for you to know that is to know Goddess. But lets touch on a few topics about her.

I have had allot of words from allot of different people who see Goddess in different lights. Some who simply like her. Some who Worship her. Some who hate her. To these people who like her I say. Your on your way to the next step. To those who worship her I say welcome to the best of the best. To those who hate her I say screw off you got ALLOT to learn.

Goddess is one of few words. Weather is because she is busy or weather is because she does not wish to share those thoughts to everyone. Or maybe its because she does not want… no because she does not have to show the softer side of herself . Whatever the reason is after you truly get to know her. Not know what you see or what you have heard but get to know her. You relies that words are not needed for her love and heart are true.

Allot of people see Goddess as a hard nose locking up and leave Dome with no feelings. To those people I say pffft. You only see with your eyes and not with your heart. A good example of this is one night me and my sisters were rp. Now I have a huge huge fear of isolation I mean to the point that when I did bane for 30 minutes before meeting Goddess I logged off crying. Call me silly I don’t care its who I am. As I was saying we were Rp and Goddess decided to use me to get some info out of one of my sisters I was close to. Goddess had me put a bane suit on and locked it full isolation. Until my sis at the time gave Goddess the info she wanted. This lasted over a hour. After it was over the next day I got allot of Ims from people asking me how I could let her do this. I told them simply because she is my Goddess. The truth behind it is they didn’t see or take the time to think or look behind the scene nor did they ask. The truth is that whole time in bane Goddess was in my Ims talking to me latterly holding me making sure everything was ok. She even offer to let me out the minute it got to be to much. That is the true side of Goddess the person she truly is.’

At one point in time Goddess sent a note out comparing herself to the Goose that laid the golden egg. In effect naming herself as the Goose and her giving of bdsm of collars of whatever as the golden egg. And had stated at the end that its best to care for the goose over the egg. For those of you who read that I would like to personally clear that up .

Goddess can not be now or ever be the goose. It is impossible on many levels. And I will tell you the main reason why this is not possible. The goose don’t care who it gives a egg to who it effects. For all the goose cares the egg could fall to the ground crack open and rot it will just lay another one. If someone takes one of the goose eggs and does not like it for whatever reason the goose don’t care it pops out a new egg.. So why cant Goddess be the goose? Because she cares she cares if one falls she cares about those around her. Those she has contact with. She herself changes those around her. Not with what she gives but by her heart.
( plus she don’t have as many feathers as the goose…winks )

Goddess came into my life from hate turned love. Are relationship has taking many turns but through it all Goddess has taught me allot as I see her to teach others as well. For Goddess is never a flicker of flame, but with Arching bolts which strike with a force

Sometimes I think of Goddess as a little lost puppy . For she will make you laugh giggle and smiles with just her eyes. She is also as playful as one. She also has the fear of the new world. Wishing to explore it pushing herself to. Yet the difference between her and a lost puppy is she don’t show her fear. Ohh yes Goddess has fear hurt pain she just don’t let it show to those around her. Again unless you truly know her and make the effort to know her.

Also Goddess is what I call a true dominant I have spent allot of time discussing with others in the lifestyle what makes a good dominant. What marks a true dominant from a player or wannabe. I have read every bit of material I could get my hands on. Through these discussions and research I have been able to compile the following list of traits, All of them appeared in every conversation I have been involved in with Goddess bdsm or not


Acceptance of herself, what is within herself, what her wants needs and desires are.. Acceptance of her limitations and those of her submissive. The ability to accept another human being for the person they are, including their shortcomings and especially to accept her own. Accepting what being a dominant is to the individual and not being ashamed or intimidated by the needs within,  but happy in her mind set.


This is the ability to talk and discuss things. It is an integral part of are relationship, but an absolute necessity within are D/s one. The ability to talk also calls into play the honesty and truthfulness of Goddess. Once you’re communication with Goddess is open it will remain that way, and will do so provided you do not stop communicating honestly.


Her ability to see and at least attempt to understand the emotional aspects of everyone around her. To understand and be aware of the multitude of things within reality that can affect someone physically, emotionally and mentally. To be able to apply that understanding to the many situations that arise within daily life .Using compassion wisely to aide people. And to support others during times of stress she is one who realizes that a dominant and a submissive are people too. Without compassion she would not be a dominant only a sadist


Personally I feel this shouldn’t need to be said about Goddess , but there are far too many people who think she lacks honesty so it has to be said. Honesty is her ability to speak up, be open and truthful about what she says. Goddess does not hide her emotions fears, limits, fantasies, ideas and thoughts. After you take the time to truly know her she will do the same with you she doesn’t tell people what she thinks they wants to hear but what the honist truth is . Honesty is her basis of trust, without it there is no trust. And without the trust, there is no true relationship with Goddess. She does not lie or attempt to deceive ( ok maybe sometimes in fun ..winks). Goddess is one who is truthful when she speaks.


This is a very important trait in Goddess. It her ability to uphold her personal honor and remain true to the agreement between herself and others . Fickleness is not a part of Goddess


Goddess has extreme patience. The ability to wait for things. She is not pushy .This does not mean she is lax or soft. But knows the proper time to push and the proper time not to Goddess also has the ability to wait for those things which take time to develop and to learn, especially within herself.

Self Control

Goddess is in control of herself .She is not one who is prone to fits of out of control behavior, raging fits and other actions which show a lack of self control. She is able to keep her physical needs in check (sometimes to well in check and never lets it out ). Goddess also has allot of self control the ability to stick to her guns.

I could go on and on about what makes Goddess Goddess But what truly makes her is easy to sum up in 2 words. Her heart

If you really want to get her attention. don’t just run around with your keys out or try to aggravate her. Instead offer her a hug.

Ohh and if you see her swat her ass she loves a good spanking.

6 comments so far

  1. Rayn Halfpint on

    sniffles* What can I say….right on Babe!

  2. Yasmin Heartsdale on

    Oh dear, is it election year already? I’m Yasmin Heartsdale and I approve this message.

    Shhhhhhhhh Yar! You’re giving away my secrets. And anyone swats my ass, you get five. Love you hon!

  3. Yar Telling on

    Errrmmm did i forget to add Forgiving in there? ues very forgiving ….forgot thats it

  4. Rayn Halfpint on

    I swatted her ass yesterday. Yeah, I had her on the desk before you logged in Hun. She was begging me to spank her: I told her no I’ll let you take care of that! )

  5. Yar Telling on

    offers to pay for photos

  6. Rayn Halfpint on

    Doh! Didn’t take any…er….did I say that? I mean it will cost you *putting her pinky to the corner of her mouth and in her best Dr. Evil voice says,* “1 billion dollars!”

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